The Autistic Chain

By Oluwadarasimi Otunla

Autism stands out as one of the most widely recognized neurological disorders globally, with its spectrum encompassing a vast range of human experiences. What if you find yourself leaning more towards the plus side of being autistic?

Let's skip the formality of defining Autism; chances are, many of us are familiar with it. Instead, let's delve straight into the article.

Within the spectrum of Autism, excluding other variants like Asperger's for now, individuals can fall into various categories. Some exhibit no signs of Autism, those who display a few or several signs, and those who have received a diagnosis or where it's fully evident they are Autistic. It's important to note that those showing signs of Autism, yet not fitting a stereotypical image, are just as Autistic.

Here are some subtle yet significant signs of Autism that may have escaped your notice:

1. Rigid Routine and Anxiety with Change: This isn't merely a "habits of successful people" concept.

2. Bluntness, Rudeness, or Lack of Interest Unintentionally: Social interactions might come off differently than intended.

3. Difficulty in Making Friends or Preferring Solitude: This goes beyond a simple preference for alone time.

4. Avoidance of Eye Contact: Distinct from the avoidance seen in deception; this is a genuine discomfort.

5. Discomfort with Physical Contact: Not limited to germophobia; it could be a heightened awareness of touch.

6. Challenges in Understanding Others' Thoughts or Feelings: This can lead to actions that may seem atypical or unexpected.

7. Emotional Regulation Difficulties: Expressing emotions as they are, without the ability to conceal them easily.

8. Repetitive Behaviours: Engaging in activities or actions repeatedly.

9. Difficulty Interpreting Facial Expressions, Body Language, or Social Cues: Perhaps those YouTube classes on understanding body language don't cover everything.

10. Tendency for Monologues on a Favourite Subject: Difficulty maintaining the natural back-and-forth of a conversation.

Interestingly, detecting signs of Autism in females is more challenging than in males. Autistic females often conceal their behaviours by mimicking others they perceive as "normal." I won't delve too deeply into that aspect.

Remember to explore further and dispel any doubts or misconceptions. If any of these resonate with you, remember: that being different doesn't make you any less special.